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The first time James had sex, he climaxed immediately. His partner grimaced, which he interpreted as commentary about his \u201cfailure.\u201d He was quick on the trigger from then on, believing he couldn\u2019t please a woman. Finally, after James met someone special, he became desperate to solve his premature ejaculation.<\/p>\n

What is Premature Ejaculation?<\/h2>\n

Premature ejaculation is defined as reaching climax in one minute\u2019s time. It is the number one sexual dysfunction, affecting 30 percent of men of all ages (18-59). Premature ejaculation\u2019s biggest sexual consequence is shame \u2013 further exacerbating the problem. Fortunately, premature ejaculation is typically the easiest male sexual problem to resolve.<\/p>\n

How to Fix Premature Ejaculation<\/h2>\n

1. Remember, it\u2019s not just about you.<\/h3>\n

Lovemaking is pleasure, connection, and eroticism between two people. Sure, men may feel humiliated when they climax before they want to, but the real problem is that they withdraw in anger, disgust, or shame \u2013 away from the sexual moment, away from their partner. Mistakenly, she may think he\u2019s angry at her, not at his own short fuse. The truth is, lots of women couldn\u2019t care less about his rapid ejaculation. If she\u2019s in the majority, she doesn\u2019t even climax with intercourse. She wants closeness, sexy time, and her own orgasm. Being left high and dry by his withdrawal from the bed is usually her real complaint. Try saying to her: \u201cYou\u2019re so sexy, I just couldn\u2019t help myself!\u201d And stay in the game until she finishes too.<\/p>\n

2. Orgasm quickly. Go again.<\/h3>\n

My favorite intervention for premature ejaculation is the take the brakes OFF. I get agreement from the couple for him to go for broke! Ejaculation is caused by two things \u2013 anxiety and erotic stimulation. When he is prescribed to climax quickly, there is no anxiety. His enjoyment of sex rapidly increases as he gains control and allows himself erotic thoughts. A second intercourse in one encounter usually ends with a slower climax.<\/p>\n

3. Stimulate the whole body.<\/h3>\n

While traditionally it\u2019s the woman who needs a body rub to warm up to the sexual moment, a guy with premature ejaculation could really use one. He learns to experience enjoyment in his whole body instead of just the excitement in his penis. Spreading the sensations decentralizes his obsession and anxiety about his performance, focusing him on pleasure.<\/p>\n

4. Sex therapy.<\/h3>\n

Unless the premature ejaculation issue is complicated by trauma, severe childhood upbringings, or marital distress, sex therapy<\/a> can be successful within a fairly short time. Standard treatment uses guided steps of progressive sexual stimulation to stop well before he feels the inevitability of climax. If his partner is cooperative and enthusiastic, a good outcome is nearly guaranteed. Often, the biggest problem is that men wait too long to address the problem; the delay in getting help complicates their relationship and compromises their partner\u2019s willingness to participate in treatment.<\/p>\n

5. Medical interventions.<\/h3>\n

While I favor behavioral techniques, medical intervention can help in certain situations. Urologists may prescribe a low dose anti-depressant of the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) type, which has the notorious and, in this case, useful side effect of slowing down orgasm. Also available by prescription are topical anesthetics in the form of sprays and cream that numb the sensation of the penile skin without diminishing feeling in his partner\u2019s vagina.<\/p>\n

Premature Ejaculation Treatment<\/h2>\n

Premature ejaculation is a difficult problem but the answer doesn\u2019t have to be \u2013 it just requires a willingness to take action. Stop climaxing quickly by getting help quickly!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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